Your Sex Questions, Answered!

You've heard them millions of time. You yourself asked it more times than that. But just like the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow, the answers to our sex quandaries have eluded us many times more than we can count. Maybe it's because of its taboo nature or we are just too embarrass to really make a serious conversation about it but let's all admit it, we want answers that can satisfy us when we ask questions about our sexuality and sex lives.

Is my penis the right size? How long should I last to satisfy my lover? Where exactly is her G-spot? Get ready to be blown away because we have the answers for you.

Penis Talk

Men have always been insecure when it comes to their penis size. I know for a fact that every guy out there experienced discomfort whenever they get inside the locker room to take a shower and change their clothes in front of other guys. There's always the anxiety about being laughed on and teased by the others because your peepee might not measure up to them. Masculinity and male power has always been equated to the size of the penis and it will stay like that for more years to come. And the idea that "the bigger, the better," which is a complete myth by the way according to many studies in past, just adds to the pressure on the male population. So finally, what really is the average size of a guy's penis?

Cold hard fact: the average penis size is between five and six inches, when ERECT! On the flaccid state, it should be around three and a half inches.

Spotting the G-spot

For a very long time, the existence of the G-spot on the female anatomy has been debated and the idea of the vaginal orgasm widely criticized. The G-spot, named after German doctor Ernst Grafenberg who first wrote about this female part, is the erogenous zone in the anterior vaginal wall that triggers the much elusive vaginal orgasm on women. Vaginal orgasms are said to be elusive because they are considered as the more powerful climax for women as compared to clitoral orgasms because it involved penile penetration. And as according to psychologist Sigmund Freud, "if a woman couldn't be satisfied by penetrative sex, something must be wrong with her." So to prove that women are not abnormal just because they can't have orgasms through penetration, we asked where really is the G-spot located?

Cold hard fact: Though there are still no scientific basis for the existence of the G-spot, it is believed to be located inside the front wall of the vagina. It is really not a spot, but more of a zone that is only two-and-a-half to five centimeters in size. If you wanna explore it and try whether it really can induce sexual arousal, feel it inside the vagina. It is a bit of a rough area in there, a bit like a walnut, and is not smooth and silky like the rest of the vaginal wall.

Blowing Off Early

Premature ejaculation is the most common form of sexual dysfunction on men, affecting 20 to 30 per cent of the male population. That is why this concept has been a frequent topic involved in most sex myths. The question of how long can a guy last and how long should he last to satisfy her partner have been thrown more times than a baseball in a baseball game. The fact that the definition of the term itself is a bit blurry adds to the confusion on this topic. There are men who ejaculates within a minute but says that they don't have premature ejaculation problems. Some can last up to 20 minutes but still think they do have problems. So what really right time to be not considered a to not having premature ejaculation?

Cold hard fact: if you want to hear a number, the average time of penetration time for men is around 5.4 minutes. But there is really no exact number that can say how much time does a man need to be able to satisfy his partner. Sex therapist advice men though to be less anxious when having sex to be able to make sure that he is doing it right for his partner. Many techniques have been offered to men so they can manage their anxiety and prolong their time of ejaculation. And contrary to popular belief, distraction or decreasing stimulation won't help either. The way to be able to last longer is by getting used to intense stimulation and just being able to enjoy it.

So there you go, answers to some of your sex questions. I just hope you learn something from this.